Love of his life but ?

You have posted several questions like this; and practically every time you mention the fact that your bf has no direction, which is clearly something that is important to you. No one can make this decision for you; but from an outsider's perspective it seems as though your relationship with this man that you love, has been circling the drain for quite some time. Sometimes love isn't enough to make a relationship work, and if you stay in a relationship solely on the contingency that someone will change, you are most likely setting yourself up for a colossal disappointment and a lifetime of resentment\regret.